Wedded life is more about how a couple treats each other. Its about bonding & sharing with love & mutual respect. A huge responsibility which is difficult to carry out provided you find the right soul mate.
If you can do the following, you are ready for marriage
Communicate
If you think you can sit tight facing a wall and keep everything to yourself, don't marry. Good communication betters understanding. Look in the eye & share your feelings. It may not be your forte but you must develop your communication with your partner. Communicating small secrets builds trust. Think. There is so much to share.
Show Respect
Don't abuse, hurt or ill treat each other. Respect each others opinions & concerns. Don't do something that your partner dislikes. Your partner has the ability & every right to make decisions in the family. You can have a healthy discussion over a coffee and see things brewing up.
Defend each other
At all times. Be there for each other. This doesn't mean you have to fight like super heroes or act like an evil mind. You must defend each other in front of others. You can't let a third person bothering or treating your partner with disrespect. Just do whatever is right to make sure you feel safe in each others presence
Agree with life
Nobody's life is perfect. There are lots of instances where valuable lessons are learnt in life. Life can't exist without those moments and there are no exceptional people.
Money matters
To make a decent living, you got to be earning. Make sure you do. Only in dreams you don't need money.
Forgive & Forget
Forgive small mistakes just as your partner would. Everyone can't be the perfect disciplinarian at all times.
Equals
You are two individuals with difference likes, dislikes, opinions, talents and character. Enjoy when you have same likes, appreciate when you differ in opinion, encourage talents and respond well to each others character. Remember to see your life partner as your best friend .
Be grateful
Care & do what is best for each other. Your partner wants you to be happy like no other. He/She is your friend & family doing his/her share of sacrifice for you, which you may or may not know.
Complement
Always appreciate and see your partner glow with happiness. Offer help to support your partner to do better. As days pass by don't forget to buy each other some tokens of love.
Give some space
Have some time alone with friends. Your partner might want to do some chit chatting with them and may not mention it.
Finally treat each other as a gift and not as a property. Have a lovely life!!!
If you can do the following, you are ready for marriage
Communicate
If you think you can sit tight facing a wall and keep everything to yourself, don't marry. Good communication betters understanding. Look in the eye & share your feelings. It may not be your forte but you must develop your communication with your partner. Communicating small secrets builds trust. Think. There is so much to share.
Show Respect
Don't abuse, hurt or ill treat each other. Respect each others opinions & concerns. Don't do something that your partner dislikes. Your partner has the ability & every right to make decisions in the family. You can have a healthy discussion over a coffee and see things brewing up.
Defend each other
At all times. Be there for each other. This doesn't mean you have to fight like super heroes or act like an evil mind. You must defend each other in front of others. You can't let a third person bothering or treating your partner with disrespect. Just do whatever is right to make sure you feel safe in each others presence
Agree with life
Nobody's life is perfect. There are lots of instances where valuable lessons are learnt in life. Life can't exist without those moments and there are no exceptional people.
Money matters
To make a decent living, you got to be earning. Make sure you do. Only in dreams you don't need money.
Forgive & Forget
Forgive small mistakes just as your partner would. Everyone can't be the perfect disciplinarian at all times.
Equals
You are two individuals with difference likes, dislikes, opinions, talents and character. Enjoy when you have same likes, appreciate when you differ in opinion, encourage talents and respond well to each others character. Remember to see your life partner as your best friend .
Be grateful
Care & do what is best for each other. Your partner wants you to be happy like no other. He/She is your friend & family doing his/her share of sacrifice for you, which you may or may not know.
Complement
Always appreciate and see your partner glow with happiness. Offer help to support your partner to do better. As days pass by don't forget to buy each other some tokens of love.
Give some space
Have some time alone with friends. Your partner might want to do some chit chatting with them and may not mention it.
Finally treat each other as a gift and not as a property. Have a lovely life!!!
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